Finding clues at home

I am so excited to be back in my homeland New Zealand after four years away. My mother and sister, brother-in-law and nieces all live in Australia, where I also lived for 12 years before I moved to the US, and also where my husband tends to get work, so trips home up to now have been there.

But recently I have had aching homesickness for the original home, the land I was born and made in, where my aunts and uncles and step-grandmother live, none of whom I’ve seen for at least eight years. Perhaps it is all this family research I am doing, this writing I am doing, about family. Perhaps it is a feeling of time passing, of stories held in the heads and memories of people who won’t be around forever. No perhaps really…these are the main points!

So here I am in Auckland, staying with cousins, visiting uncle and aunt. I am asking a gazzillion questions and photographing frantically: photos each has, and family heirlooms too, with the stories each holds. Each story gives a new light to the story I am writing, each remembrance a gem. The family legends have crinkled at the edges with each piece of fact I have found in archives, but now each memory softens and rounds out the reality.

At my cousin’s place I see for the very first time pictures of our great-great-grandmother, her namesake, Abigael, and husband Hersleb, and I find her more aloof than I imagined and him more warm. It might be the magnificent handlebar mustache that gets me. I know he is the patriarch, the judge/lawyer/politician involved in the split of Norway from Sweden in 1905. It is a fine upstanding family that our Volrath was descended from. I photograph belongings of Abigael’s: an antique sewing table, writing desk and music sheets bound in a book with her name embossed on the cover. All wonderful tangible clues to what an upper class lady of the day spent her time on.

Cousin Jackson brings out the source of even greater excitement: Volrath’s pocket watch! I hold it and imagine Volrath holding it. It is a BIG watch. I research it online from the brand name John Pound of London and find it was called the Goliath. It amuses me because I know he once had a business called Titan and I think it was in the same timeframe of the watch – both based in England.

Uncle John shows me round his hallway walls: the family crest, the portraits of ancestors apparently stolen by my grandfather when back in Norway, a fantastic school portrait of Volrath when he was just seven years old, and a picture of Volrath and Margot striding elegantly down the main street of Wellington in the 1930s. He pulls out some of the family silver; a teapot, salt and pepper shakers, a fish slice, a pair of scissors apparently just for snipping grapes.

He drives me past the house he thinks Volrath and Margot lived in for a while, and I have another address for them too. I walk along the beach I have walked along before, but this time knowing they would once have walked there too.

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